Let them be wrong.
There is great peace in accepting that people are free to be wrong about you.
There's an interesting phenomena that happens when you are in energetic alignment. If you don't want that is, let me tell you really quick before I go on.
Being aligned means that you are TRUE to you and your desires.
You put feeling good first and make decisions out of desire and abundance rather than fear and doubt.
You know that when you feel good, you can show up in a better state for your family, friends...
When you are in true energetic alignment you are a magnet to everything you want. It all comes so much easier and that's because your energy is a MATCH to the other end of what it is you actually want.
When you're in alignment it doesn't mean that you don't have hard days. You still will, BUT you show up different in them.
You realize the truth of what the unwanted experiences are: pure contrast.
Because when you know what you don't want, you know what you do want. And then in that moment your next step becomes so clear. You don't stay in a victim mode, you don't get jealous, anxious or make decisions from anger.
Sure, you may initially feel them because we are human, but when you are in true energetic alignment, you won't stay there long at ALL because its not a match to the essence of alignment where the higher vibrations exist such as love, joy, happiness, excitement, and appreciation!
Here's the phenomena, in true energetic alignment, what happens (in my experience) is that people fall out of your life, (even those you LOVE!).
When your energetic vibration rises, and others around you don't, there's two things that will happen:
1. They will rise to meet you or
2. They will exit.
That's it, and because like attracts like and energy that's not a MATCH cannot sustain an attachment so by law it will have to exit out of your energetic presence.
And this can be rather difficult, especially for those you trust and love. I have experienced this a few times over the last few years and it has been difficult (to say the least).
Here's the thing. You want to be aware of what's happening, because what YOU DON'T WANT is to shrink the truth of who you are in order to keep those who are no longer a match for you (read it again, please).
And that my friend, is a fkn hard lesson. Trust me, I have been learning this one over and over. Holding yourself through it WITHOUT hiding or lowering standards, expectations, or watering down your desires is an Olympic sport itself (someone please send me a gold medal, surely I have earned a few by now).
But it is POSSIBLE. And when you get to this side, life unfolds in ways that feel truly magical. Things get so much easier. People pop into your life as if you pressed a button and viola-- Hello, I'm here to help you with.... is right there! Seriously.
It's actually very rare for me to experience anger now. Actually, the reason I'm inspired to write this email to you today is because I did have a moment where I experienced anger today. Anger because of an injustice and after I let myself feel it and let it out I moved to compassion because I know that some people just can't see what they can't see.
I know that when you're not in alignment you do things out of FEAR. Things I do not agree with and would never personally do. And so when I realized the contrast, I was reminded deep in my heart of my own truth, integrity and my LOVE for others. And this is a place where I will stand.
And so with that, I let it be enough. I decided that people can be wrong about me.
I would rather spend my time and energy BEING in alignment, thinking about how grateful I am for my life. For my family. For all of my past, present and future experiences to come and the energy that everything always works out for me, because it ALWAYS does.
It has taken me a long time to get to a place of concrete certainty on this. If you resonate with this and/or are experiencing some fear or doubt in your life, this is my message to you tonight:
Let everyone be wrong about you. Forget what anyone else thinks and do what is right and best for you. Do things out of LOVE. Take chances on yourself. Be BIG, let your voice be heard in every room. Say your ideas out loud, say NO when you want to, let people think you're too much... GO BIG and don't back down for fear of what someone else thinks about you or is threatened by you.
Take care of YOU. Do what you need. And if you're reading this and you don't know what that next step is for you ask yourself, “What would LOVE do?” And do that because only LOVE is real, the rest is all an illusion.
I love you. I love me. I love us. Thank you for reading this tonight.
To letting them be wrong about you,